7 Steps to Creating Your Dream Life

Along my journey I started what has now become my blueprint & I apply these 7 steps to my daily life, EVERYDAY!

It’s funny how at this moment I have learned & conditioned myself to be fully aligned with “what is” now & trust fully in the guidance of the Universe. Life is simple my friends, we make it complicated! I noticed when I looked back at my steps & my life blueprint, everything was in 7, my steps, every time I saw a number it had 7 in it, even when I go shopping, the total would have at least one 7 in it!…so I knew that was a sign so I started researching it & this is what I discovered…

Number 7 resonates with the vibrations and energies of the ‘Collective Consciousness’, faith and spirituality, spiritual awakening and awareness, spiritual enlightenment,spiritual development, mysticism, intuition and inner-knowing, inner-wisdom,psychic abilities, intentions, manifesting and manifestation in time and space and good fortune.     
Well once I recognized what 7 meant I KNEW I was on the right track. Now 7 is a special number to me & you can imagine why!

So along my journey I started sharing what I have learned & it has lead me to what was my passion, my purpose & that was coaching!

Manifesting destiny and attracting the appropriate energies is, of course, a very fickle, tricky concept. To learn more about how to play it right and build the life you’ve always dreamed of, understand the Law of Attraction and how it applies to manifesting the destiny you desire, I’d like to share my daily 7 Steps in Manifesting Your Dream Life with you…



I know you might here this often, I know I did & I really didn’t understand what they truly meant, so here it is.

You MUST be clear in what you desire. I mean detail-oriented clear, you need to add ALL of your senses to this clarity as you write it. Don’t just say I wanna have a million dollars, WHY? What do you want the million dollars for? Money is just energy, a means to something, so let go of the “I WANT” money attitude & focus on the REAL meaning behind the money. Ask yourself Why? Write it down, then ask yourself more WHY’S each time you answer the previous WHY until you are completely crystal clear of what you truly desire!

Then ask “Does this make me happy? Notice HOW you feel when you can see it in your mind. Only when you are truly aligned with your true purpose & passions will you experience the gift of Desire.


2. Visualize – Like Attracts Like

Now that you have a CLEAR understanding of what you truly desire, now visualize every detail of that desire. How do you feel, what does it look like, smell like, feel like, can you taste it, hear it?

Visualization is simply a mental rehearsal. You create images in your mind of having or doing whatever it is that you want. You then repeat these images over and over again, daily for about five minutes a day. In your five-minute practice, use your imagination to see yourself being successful in whatever goal you may have. This process triggers the occipital lobe which sits in the lower, back part of the brain. Containing the visual cortex, parietal lobe’s primary function is to process visual information. The parietal lobe lies above the occipital lobe, and its primary function is to integrate sensory information, such as vision, but also touch and sound.

The Law of Attraction is very simple. You have to know what you want. You focus on the positive aspects of what you need, desire, or want to manifest. Like attracts Like, Positive attracts positive, negative attracts negative. This is where the saying ‘misery loves company’ came from. Lower-level energies will flock together, just like Birds of a Feather. If you want to manifest, you envision rising above these energies and staying in the positive. … This can be further detailed by saying that if you think it, it will come. Words have power and thoughts are the fuel to that energy. Choose your thoughts & words wisely!


3. Affirmations

There are many great affirmations out there, but I recommend creating YOUR signature affirmations & this is the process I use:

Each day take at least 15 minutes to just BE, this is YOUR time to become aware, connected & listen to the Universe. The Universe is ALWAYS in constant contact with us, so take the time to hear what it’s telling you!

During this 15 minutes just BE in the moment, if you’re outside, notice the trees, nature, the clouds & sky. BE in the moment, then if any thoughts come up, write them down, when you have negative thoughts re-write it into an affirmation, for example;

I don’t deserve…

turn it into;

I am worthy of all good that comes to me or I deserve all good that comes my way OR Today good things are constantly flowing to me with ease.

This becomes your signature affirmation…Write as many as you feel in that moment, do focus on the thought just re-write that thought into what you TRULY want to feel, as you write it you will notice your emotion change in that instant from a “negative” feeling into a “positive” one.

Now for the science…Now I know that science supports the power of positive affirmations. Affirmations are basically a form of auto-suggestion, and when practiced deliberately and repeatedly, they reinforce chemical pathways in the brain, strengthening neural connections.

It takes roughly three times of repeating the positive ideas to negate the negative thoughts. Make a vision board that affirms your desires. List five things you want to focus on this month and constantly repeat them daily like a mantra. For example, my vision board says, ‘Money flies at me from all directions.’ Sometimes, I get a large-paying client, and sometimes, I simply find a quarter on the street. Point being, money is coming to me from everywhere. After you focus on what you want, you need to keep in that mindset. If you allow any negative thoughts to creep in, you will reverse all the work you just did or just slow down your receiving process!

Believe it or not, we CAN re-wire our brain!


4. KARMA: What You Give You Receive

When feel in control of your life, you are more likely to be happy and excited about getting out of bed and enjoying your day. If you feel like a slave to your job, you will be miserable and angry most of the time. If you can create a life, a job, a family that you want, you will cherish it and be excited daily! The benefits to manifesting destiny are clear: If you feel like you have the power to control your future, your days will feel much more promising, fulfilling, and generally happy. AND in return be happier towards others, you will start treating people the way YOU want to be treated. So your Karma is positive. 

Discipline is an excellent tool for changing negative thought patterns. The more you can focus and discipline yourself to recognize negative thoughts and change them to positive ones, the more likely you are to have a positive outcome.

Discipline yourself to clear your mind when you’re going down a dark path; you’ll never come out the other end feeling bright and optimistic.

And always remember that no matter what experiences you have good or bad, there are NO failures just lessons! Learn & grow from each experience & you will move through life with ease.

Taking responsibility for our life, actions & experiences brings awareness & through this awareness we experience who we truly are. Life is an amazing journey & never forget your a Spirit having a Human experience, let your spirit enjoy this journey!


5. Focus

A lot of people get lost here. They think the Law of Attraction means just to visualize & say affirmations & miraculously things will appear! This is NOT the case. You need to work & apply what comes your way. Look for opportunities & embrace them, you may be attracted to a book or resonate with a mentor or coach, this is the Universe answering your request. It’s up to YOU what choice you make after that!

When you focus on what you want in life, you’re more likely, on a conscious and unconscious level, to move towards that goal. Many times, without realizing it, people don’t get what they want because they’re not focused on it, on any level. Or you’re focused on failure instead of success. It’s always a good idea to focus on what you want because on some level, your conscious and your subconscious can work towards what you want.

Simply focusing on finding Mr. or Ms. Right isn’t going to get you there, but it is definitely going to help your process if you use other techniques as well! For instance, if you focus on manifesting your happy romantic destiny while creating a strong dating profile and figuring out your goals and deal breakers, you’re more likely to be successful than if you have a negative attitude while doing this important work towards dating smart. … As with anything else, manifesting your destiny doesn’t happen with a magic wand. Very little in life happens with a single act — but having a positive outlook and focusing on your goal is going to move your success along, in the right direction, that much more quickly. It will also help overcome obstacles that might trip you up with a less focused and positive outlook.

Relying on the simple act of manifesting and cognitively focusing on what you want will not bring it to magically arrive at your doorstep. While manifesting is the foundation to creating your destiny, action is required! Work hard for what you want, if for nothing more than to prove to yourself it’s actually what you want.

If you make a list and do not take action, you could be considered a dreamer. Just trusting alone does not make it happen. Once you take action, there is a point where there is nothing else you can do, when you reach that point, trust comes into play and at that moment you should surrender to a higher power.


6. Let It Go – Surrender to What Was or What Will Be & Focus on What Is

This is where the trust factor comes in….

Let go of the past it’s NOT here anymore, BUT, when you’re manifesting, once you do the above steps now it’s time to let it go into the Universe to manifest.

As you begin to let go of trying to control challenges, remember that this does not mean that you are shirking your part in the process.  Rather, it means that you are courageously facing challenges with a new awareness of your alignment with the Universe & the power within you.  It means that you are beginning to accept that you can handle whatever confronts you because of the solid foundation of your Spirit within you.

If there is some action to take, some word to speak, some truth to know, it will be revealed and accomplished through the guidance, this is why taking a those 15 minutes each day for yourself is SO important!

You can work toward manifesting positive outcomes; however, there are always these statements: ‘I want this but not that. I want this and that, and I want this, but if I cannot have this, I will settle for this.’ These types of thoughts bring forth convoluted requests and results. Using the modifiers ‘not, but, and, as well as, either/or’ muck things up. The energies that guide us and assist us take the request that was uttered or written and manifest things literally (including those words). It just happens that way. I tell people to only state or write down what they want and to leave out the things they do not want. The use of modifiers often provides mixed results, which may not be what you want!

Letting go and letting the Divine handle things sometimes means finding new ways of helping yourself to the peace you earnestly desire or the listening to the guidance that comes to you – even as simple nudges or quiet urges.

If you have ever thought that the only way you can receive help is the way you have always done so, remember to be open to new ways of discovering the good you seek.  You are always in a state of unfolding consciousness; therefore, you can be confident that it is all right to change your direction and move forward when you are following guidance from Spirit within. Let go of the old to make room for the new.

Remember if you want a different result then do something different!

If you do what you’ve always done, you will get what you’ve always gotten!


7. Humility

In order to progress as humans we must NEVER stop learning, we must never stop growing, in order for this to happen we MUST practice Humility!

Humility definition, the quality or condition of being humble; modest opinion or estimate of one’s own importance, rank, etc.

Whether we’re looking at business or politics, sports or entertainment, it’s clear we live in an era of self-celebration. Fame is equated with success, and being self-referential has become the norm. As a result we are encouraged to pump ourselves full of alarming self-confidence.

Yes, we have scores of books, articles, and studies that warn us of the perils of hubris. The word comes from the Greek and means extreme pride and arrogance, generally indicating a loss of connection to reality brought about when those in power vastly overestimate their capabilities. And yes, there’s clear evidence that its opposite, Humility, inspires loyalty, helps to build and sustain cohesive, productive relationships.

Men such as the ones we see who have succeeded, achieved and made a name for themselves are the most ferocious learners. They learn, read, study and meditate on their fields of endeavors all of the time. You can call it their obsession. Don’t believe me? Just read Napoleon Hills work and closely monitor the men he observed – how they behaved and operated on a daily basis.

The ability to be a humble student is the key to approaching the Law of Attraction successfully.

Why? Let’s use an example. The only way a parachute can operate and actually perform its function properly is when it is open. When a parachute is not fully open it can put the user’s life in danger right?

The same goes for our minds. When our minds approach any subject in a full and honest state of humility: this is when the mind is most open. The mind is ready to receive and soak up knowledge. This is the state when the mind dissects and processes information at an optimum level. In this state of total humility the mind becomes relaxed and open like the parachute working effortlessly as the winds of knowledge rush into it.

When this occurs several things begin to happen. With taking in of new information our current beliefs may be challenged and pushed into an uncomfortable place. In a spirit of humility your sub conscious mind does not view new material as attack on current beliefs, rather it sees the information as raw materials fit to build better and stronger beliefs.

There is a magical power that activates the Law of Attraction when you become a humble learner and put aside your ego. This does not imply that you are weak in any way – it actually shows a reservoir of true strength.

Grasp this mindset & you will Unleash Your Hidden Power!

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Happy Manifesting!

Till next time………….

Love & Light








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